今日は、ある日本人が言った言葉を紹介します。「叱ってくれる人を持つこと

今日は、ある日本人が言った言葉を紹介します。
「叱ってくれる人を持つことは大きな幸福である。」
という言葉です。
この意味は
大事なのは、「叱ってくれる人」で
「怒ってくれる人」ではないという事です。
「叱る」と「怒る」。
似ている言葉ですが、
『叱る』は相手のため。
『怒る』は自分のため。
「怒る」というのは、嫌なことをされた時に、自分の感じる感情の事。
「叱る」というのは、あなたに”もっと良くなってもらいたい”。という気持ちを込めて指示する事。
自分に対して
本気で叱り、
本気で褒め、
一緒に喜んで、
悲しんでくれる。
そういう上司や仲間にたくさん出会えば、心も成長できると思う。

逆に、いくら長年勤めていても、そのような刺激がなければ、人間的な変化や成長が少ない。
という事です。

私も、みんなに支えられながら仕事をしているが
みんなに対して、
「怒る」ではなく
「叱る」という行為が出来ているか振り返る。

みなさんも将来
上司や後輩へアドバイスする立場になった場合
叱っているつもりが、怒っている、になっていないか。
を意識してみんなとコミニケーションを行ってください。

みんなが意識すれば、必ず、みんなが良くなります。

結果 (英語) 1:

Today, some Japanese words introduce."Is a great happiness with those who scold. 」It is the word.This means thatWhat's important is alone not scold meIt is things that will upset people."Weak" and "angry".Similar sounding words.Is "weak" for the opponent.The "angry" for yourself.Do nasty things when "angry", to feel my feelings."Scold", "more getting better I want to". The thing with feeling, to tell.For yourselfSeriously, scolding,Seriously, compliments,Happy together,Me sad.I think can grow mentally and if that boss or fellow lot encounter.Low, conversely, how much work for many years without such incentives, personal change and growth.It is said that.While I, too, was supported by all that work areFor everyone,Rather than "get angry"What means "weak", recalled.Everyone in the futureIf you were in a position to advise superiors and juniorsDo not become angry going to scold?Make everyone aware of communication.If everyone is aware, everyone will be better.

結果 (英語) 2:

Today, we will introduce the words that some Japanese said.
"Having someone to scold big happiness is."
This is the word.
This means that
the important thing is, in the "scolded by us people"
is that not "angry us human."
and "scold" and "angry".
It is words that are similar,
and "scold" because of the opponent.
and "angry" because of their own.
And that of the "angry", when it is to be unpleasant, that of feeling that he of feel.
and "scold" because, "I want to become better" you to. It is indicated with feeling that.
To myself
to scold seriously,
and compliment really,
happily together,
can you sad.
If you meet a lot to kind of boss or fellow, I think the mind can also be growth. Conversely, even if working much years Without such stimulation, humane change and growth is small. Is that. I also, but have a job while being supported by everyone against everyone, "angry" rather than look back if they can act of "scold". Everyone in the future if that became in a position to advice to the boss or junior going to have scolded is either not become angry, to. Please do everyone and expressed interest are aware. If everyone is aware, always, everyone will be better.

結果 (英語) 3:

Today, the Japanese words. It is for people to have
「 is a great happiness. " And is the word. The meaning of this important people, and not a "me", the "
「 angrily scolded.
「 scold "and" angry ". But at the word like to scold at ". Angry at myself for you. 'it is angry, when I feel the emotion. The
「 scolding, """ I want you to become better. It is to show that. At the compliment with seriously in earnest to scold myself at the ready, together with you, in the sad. That's a lot to see at the boss or peers, the mind can think and growth. Conversely, no matter how long, that is, the human must stimulate growth and change. And that is. I, with all supporting that work for everyone in the 、
「 not angry. ""Looking back is made to act." If you are going for a position at the advice on future boss and you, angry, or not. Please consciously and communication at all. You have to be aware of, be sure that all will be well. At